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Four Years

By Jessica

Before you read this I have to take a moment to say how truly humbled I am to be nominated as a Woman of Strength by the incomparable Nichole of In These Small Moments. If you have an extra second you can view her beautiful post here.

My blogoversary was two days ago.

I have been blogging for four years and have never celebrated the anniversary of the day I began blogging so apparently this year is no exception.

I began this blog when I was pregnant with the triplets and the promise of an uneventful pregnancy was quickly unraveling.

Thinking back to creating that first post, I remember typing with the hopes and dreams of three babies nestled under my heart and wishing with everything I had that they would all be okay.

Never could I have imagined the devastating twists or the glorious turnsΒ ahead of us.

Four years later and we are hanging on.

But we are better than hanging on,

we are hugging and squeezing and soaking up life.

kids hugging

Because long NICU stays and sleepless nights and missed blogoversaries aside,

loving the life in front of you

is the perfect way to cherish the life you are missing.

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  1. Marta says

    June 16, 2012 at 1:40 am

    Oh Jessica that was beautiful. And yes that is the perfect way to cherish it.

    Happy anniversary.

    Reply
  2. Sherri says

    July 22, 2011 at 11:39 pm

    Oh, this is perfect. Love the life in front of you.

    And you, my dear? You do that better than many.

    And Nichole’s nod to you was well-deserved and I was so pleased when she told me.

    Reply
    • Jessica says

      July 23, 2011 at 7:41 am

      Thank you Sherri, the only way to survive for me :).

      Reply
  3. Charlotte says

    July 21, 2011 at 1:41 pm

    What a beautiful post. For some reason or other, I find that many of the posts I’ve read today pertain to cherishing the finer moments in life… it’s always a very important reminder, isn’t it? Love this photo so very much of your little angels. Beautiful πŸ™‚

    And happy blogoversary to you!

    Reply
    • Jessica says

      July 21, 2011 at 2:53 pm

      Thank you, so glad we\’ve connected in this blog world!

      Reply
  4. Sarah says

    July 21, 2011 at 12:00 pm

    Love this! Happy 4 years. My 2 year is on Saturday.

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    • Jessica says

      July 21, 2011 at 2:54 pm

      How funny, I remember when we met I think we were each other\’s 100th followers didn\’t realize we started blogging at close to the same time of year too.

      Reply
  5. Elena says

    July 21, 2011 at 12:51 am

    Happy Blogoversary! Wow – 4 years! I’ll have to buy you a drink next time I see you. Although it will probably be chocolate milk since I’m sure we’ll be at some sort of kids play place. πŸ˜‰

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  6. Kate F. says

    July 20, 2011 at 9:29 pm

    Congratulations on your “blogoversery.” What an amazing accomplishment 4 years is and an inspiration to a “newbie” blogger. I feel very fortunate to have happened upon your blog and look forward to each time I see one of your “stories” pop up on my Google Reader! Keep ’em coming… πŸ™‚

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    • Jessica says

      July 20, 2011 at 10:25 pm

      Awww, thanks so much Kate. I\’m so glad we\’ve connected and look forward to watching your blog grow.

      Reply
  7. Tonya says

    July 20, 2011 at 7:28 pm

    Four years?! Wow… that’s a lifetime.

    Congratulations!!

    Somehow I think, no, I know! with photos like this? You have a lot more story to tell.

    Here’s to the next four years and beyond!

    Reply
    • Jessica says

      July 20, 2011 at 10:26 pm

      Looking forward to the years ahead and so glad we have found each other in this blogging world Tonya.

      Reply
  8. Paula@Simply Sandwich says

    July 20, 2011 at 6:20 pm

    Happy 4th Blogoversary! πŸ™‚

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  9. Elaine says

    July 20, 2011 at 3:19 pm

    Congrats on FOUR years! That is so awesome. Do you feel like you’ve been doing it forever? I kinda do, since it will be 5 years for me in November! Crazy!

    I’m so glad I found your blog THIS year! Here’s to many more! xo

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  10. JDaniel4's Mom says

    July 20, 2011 at 2:05 pm

    Congrats! You have done and will continue to do a wonderful job on your blog!

    Reply
  11. NotJustAnotherJennifer says

    July 20, 2011 at 1:40 pm

    Congrats! Yay!

    Reply
  12. Natasha says

    July 20, 2011 at 1:39 pm

    Happy Blogaversary!

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  13. Ilana says

    July 20, 2011 at 1:14 pm

    Happy Blogaversary! Your blog is one of my favorites:)

    Reply
  14. Kate says

    July 20, 2011 at 12:21 pm

    I’m glad you started a blog! Your posts are by far some of my favorites!

    Reply
  15. Rachel {at} Mommy Needs a Vacation says

    July 20, 2011 at 11:06 am

    4 years!! That is quite an accomplishment!

    Reply
  16. MommaKiss says

    July 20, 2011 at 10:07 am

    sweet heavens, look at those smiles!

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  17. Rach (DonutsMama) says

    July 20, 2011 at 9:26 am

    Happy Blogoversary. You have so much to cherish.

    Reply
  18. Nikki Stephan says

    July 20, 2011 at 8:56 am

    Happy blogoversary!

    Sorry we didn’t get to meet at the PRSA event last night, but thanks for participating. It’s so important for PR pros to understand how to work with bloggers, and you and the others definitely provided some good insight to those in the room who don’t have experience working with bloggers.

    Reply
  19. Vivian says

    July 20, 2011 at 8:50 am

    Happi Blogoversary! 4 year is amazing and you’re doing a great job. I love the picture =)

    Reply
  20. liz says

    July 20, 2011 at 8:33 am

    Ooooh! The “hugging and squeezing and soaking up life”, combined with that photo? TOO much!

    Happy 4th blogoversary!

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  21. Jackie says

    July 20, 2011 at 8:30 am

    Congratulations on the 4 year anniversary! I didn’t realize that you’d been at it so long!

    Enjoy the little things in life! Your picture says it all.

    Reply
  22. angela says

    July 20, 2011 at 8:13 am

    Happy blogaversery!! Your words are beautiful (as always), and you are wise. Celebrating and living life is indeed a tribute to those who are gone, though that doesn’t make their presence any less missed.

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  23. Galit Breen says

    July 20, 2011 at 8:06 am

    Gorgeous as always- and a great reminder to be in the moment, and to appreciate it.

    Happy blogaversary friend! I’m so glad you’re still sharing your beautiful words here!

    Reply
  24. Mad Woman behind the Blog says

    July 20, 2011 at 7:47 am

    So right!
    That picture is adorable.
    Congrats!

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  25. Mrs. Weber says

    July 20, 2011 at 7:37 am

    Amen, sistah! The photo says it all. Regardless, happy blogiversary! It was a privilege to meet you IRL yesterday. Hope to see you again soon πŸ™‚

    Reply
  26. Klz says

    July 20, 2011 at 7:24 am

    You are so very, very right.

    Happy four years.

    Reply
  27. Not a Perfect Mom says

    July 20, 2011 at 7:16 am

    beautifully said…happy blogoversary

    Reply
  28. tracy says

    July 20, 2011 at 7:14 am

    Congrats to you my friend. That photo is so perfect. xo

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  29. Barbara says

    July 20, 2011 at 4:16 am

    Happy 4th blogiversary! What a great photo!

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  30. Kimberly says

    July 20, 2011 at 2:00 am

    Happy 4 years! Love that picture! And you’re so right, cherish the life we have.

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  31. Jessica says

    July 20, 2011 at 1:45 am

    Happy 4 years! I had no idea you had been blogging this long.

    Reply
  32. Christina S. says

    July 20, 2011 at 12:04 am

    Happy (belated) Blogoversary! I really enjoyed meeting you in person tonight. Can’t wait to connect with you again soon. Maybe lunch sometime? (I can provide teenagers for babysitting) πŸ˜‰

    Reply
  33. Nicole @MTDLBlog says

    July 19, 2011 at 11:57 pm

    I {heart} you.
    That is all.
    Happy Blogoversary!

    Reply
  34. Stephanie says

    July 19, 2011 at 11:57 pm

    That last photo is so great!

    Happy Blogoversary πŸ™‚

    Reply
  35. Jennie B says

    July 19, 2011 at 11:57 pm

    It’s been a pleasure sharing some of those ups and downs with you! As always, you’ve said it perfectly.

    Reply
  36. Kelly K @ Writing with Chaos says

    July 19, 2011 at 11:56 pm

    Happy blogoversary!

    I had no idea you’d been blogging for so long!

    That photo is adorable. Such love.

    Reply

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