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Sunset

By Jessica

They each have a color.

Some out of necessity, we thought we would need a system to tell their things apart:

McKenna- pink, Parker- blue, Hadley- purple.

Others picked favorites on their own:

Ashlyn- yellow, Sawyer- orange.

We watched the sun go down as we drove home the other day, the darkness of Spring holding off until goodnight kisses.

Recognizing their colors out of the sunset, they each found a place in the sky.

I want this for them.

To feel eye-sparkling dreamy, yet firmly planted.

To sift through their own path but feel part of most anywhere.

To love their color,

to learn when to blur and bend

and when to be bold and blazing.

To remember when they thought of themselves as part of the sunrise and the sunset.

They always will be to me.

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  1. Robin @ Farewell, Stranger says

    March 24, 2012 at 12:58 pm

    Love this one.

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  2. alita says

    March 23, 2012 at 8:53 pm

    The simplicity of this post was blissful. The picture you shared is as lovely as the writing that went along with it. The swans, your bambino, and the light… Gorgeous!

    I wish the very same for my children. I want them to use their color to their best ability. I want them to not be afraid to roll up their sleeves and get messy with their color. And most of all I want them to shine with their color.

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  3. Tonya says

    March 23, 2012 at 6:35 pm

    Beautiful. Your words, your photo, your children, your heart. Just beautiful.

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  4. Charlotte says

    March 23, 2012 at 4:31 pm

    I love every bit of this incredibly poetic post. You are just a master at crafting beautiful prose. XOXO

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  5. Jaime says

    March 23, 2012 at 2:43 pm

    Wow, this just completely took my breath away. What a beautiful image and symbol.

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  6. The Mommy Psychologist says

    March 23, 2012 at 2:24 am

    Beautiful piece. Thank you for sharing.

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  7. Nicole says

    March 22, 2012 at 3:47 pm

    Children always wanted a surprise on their stuff beautiful things that will bring them happiness…

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  8. Kristen @ Motherese says

    March 22, 2012 at 11:15 am

    Beautiful. You, your words, your kids. All the colors.

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  9. Marc says

    March 22, 2012 at 3:21 am

    You made me smile over this great post. I can feel the deep emotions as I read every word.

    I hope that they will realize what you wanted for them.

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  10. Stasha says

    March 21, 2012 at 11:23 pm

    You make the simplest things in life sound like the most important. Which they are. Love your love for life and your family.

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  11. Nancy M. Campbell says

    March 21, 2012 at 11:18 pm

    Your words are so lovely.

    It’s funny. We imagine or predict or expect our children to be a certain shade.

    And yet, they surprise us. And we realize how vibrant and perfect and true their colors are. Just by being who they are.

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    • Jessica says

      March 22, 2012 at 7:24 am

      So true Nancy, it’s amazing how they grow and find their own “color” I just hope they can always stay true to it.

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  12. Jen says

    March 21, 2012 at 8:34 pm

    Sunsets are so beautiful.

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  13. julie gardner says

    March 21, 2012 at 4:40 pm

    How lucky your children are.

    To bend and blur and blaze; to be both an individual and a part of an unending whole.

    To have this mother; to know that her day, her life, begins and ends with them.

    Always.

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    • Jessica says

      March 22, 2012 at 7:29 am

      Okay so you can make me cry in a comment. xo

      Reply
  14. Alex@LateEnough says

    March 21, 2012 at 1:37 pm

    What a beautiful family you have – embracing all the colors and all the ways we are loved

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  15. Not a Perfect Mom says

    March 21, 2012 at 1:34 pm

    how do you do this?

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  16. tracy@sellabitmum says

    March 21, 2012 at 1:30 pm

    Beautiful, my friend. xoxo

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  17. Lady Jennie says

    March 21, 2012 at 12:35 pm

    Beautiful. I don’t have any other words.

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  18. CJ says

    March 21, 2012 at 12:03 pm

    My cousin had quads. One was stillborn, three survived. She did the color system and it worked out beautifully for her. Ironically, two of her quads are named McKenna and Parker! (Madison and Preston round out the four!)

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    • Jessica says

      March 22, 2012 at 7:31 am

      Oh wow, how wild. Does your cousin blog? Would love to visit if she does.

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  19. Beatriz says

    March 21, 2012 at 10:53 am

    I don’t know what kind of feeling is this, every time I watching over the beautiful sunset, there’s a kind of emotion in touch my heart…

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  20. Brittany Stewart says

    March 21, 2012 at 10:23 am

    That’s so sweet.
    I remember having a colour as a kid. I was blue, my sister pink. I was waiting for the girls til their personalities shown through a little more.
    It’s beautiful that each of your children have a place in the sunset.

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  21. Lenon35 says

    March 21, 2012 at 10:07 am

    Sunset is one of the beautiful moment were I can cherish a kind of emotions, this is the special time were my husband and I get together at a time…

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  22. MommaKiss says

    March 21, 2012 at 9:55 am

    I love the picture you included, so – well -pretty. That seems too simple a word.

    My kids have colors, too – blue and green.

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  23. Kir says

    March 21, 2012 at 9:53 am

    that was so beautiful, to be able to see your children as their own colors and one gorgeous rainbow together.

    I was silenced with the beauty of your words and that picture. I always say that I see Gio and Jacob as twins and as seperate little boys..their colors bright and then twisted around one another to make a special collage.

    I felt all that while reading this. xo

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  24. liz says

    March 21, 2012 at 9:50 am

    “They each found a place in the sky”.

    So beautiful, So perfect!

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  25. Mirjam says

    March 21, 2012 at 9:24 am

    Oh Jessica, what a beautiful post!

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  26. Kimberly says

    March 21, 2012 at 9:23 am

    This just made me cry.
    What a beautiful perspective. And the way you wove those words? Ahhh…gorgeous.

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  27. JDaniel4's Mom says

    March 21, 2012 at 9:03 am

    What wonderful word picture you have painted! It is truly lovely!

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  28. Barbara @ Footprints in France says

    March 21, 2012 at 8:23 am

    Your words are always so beautiful and that picture is just breathtaking.

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  29. Angela says

    March 21, 2012 at 8:02 am

    Your writing is beautiful here, but I really wanted to comment on the photo. I’ve lived your pictures so much lately!

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  30. Nana says

    March 21, 2012 at 6:42 am

    I love your redesign…and today’s post…breathtaking

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  31. Jessica says

    March 21, 2012 at 2:53 am

    Beautifully written, just like everything else you write. We always had “our color” too. I love this part: “to learn when to blur and bend and when to be bold and blazing.” Perfect!

    Also, I really love your new header! It’s so cute.

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  32. Lanie says

    March 21, 2012 at 12:55 am

    I love their colors. Beautiful post and picture. Is that Parker in the picture? Take care.

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  33. Elaine says

    March 21, 2012 at 12:02 am

    Nope, you did not just make me cry with that short but gorgeous post. Surely not…

    (oh but you did. so beautiful…)

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  34. Galit Breen says

    March 21, 2012 at 12:00 am

    Absolutely beautiful.

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  35. christine says

    March 20, 2012 at 11:10 pm

    A beautiful post. You words always touch my heart.

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  36. Karen says

    March 20, 2012 at 10:48 pm

    So beautiful!

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  37. Natalie @MamaTrack says

    March 20, 2012 at 10:35 pm

    So lovely. What a wonderful idea. And I know she loves purple.

    Reply

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