Four Plus an Angel

Life after loss with one teenager, two surviving triplets and a rainbow baby

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My oldest was diagnosed with autism over 12 years ago (you can read her story here).  From the day she was born I entered a world that no parenting book could guide me through.  Ashlyn is now a teenager and we still have our struggles but she has far surpassed any of the outcomes we were given when she was a toddler.  I do not blog about autism as much as I used to.  We do not eat, sleep and breath autism anymore.  It is part of our life but it does not define our family or my daughter.

If you are at the beginning of your autism journey the best advice I can give is to be your child’s best advocate.  You as the parent know your child better than any expert ever will.

And have hope.

There is so much more available now than there was when Ashlyn was young and although the unknown may seem scary and you may not have the future you envisioned, things will get better and there is always, always hope for our amazing kids.

I realize that I am among a small minority of autism moms who have girls on the spectrum and so far (some how) we have survived grade school, dentist appointments, hair cuts, middle school and puberty and are working our way through high school so if you are on the same road and have questions or just want to connect please email me at fourplusanangel@gmail.com. I would love to hear from you.

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jess and sawyer bwI'm Jessica, 40-something mom to five, four in my arms and one in my heart.

On any given day you will find me taxi-ing a teenager, mopping up our latest "art project" and trying to remember when I turned the crock pot on… all the while, looking for the closest Starbucks drive thru. more

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Instagram post 2191856731926372695_22599241 So proud of this boy and wishing we were allowed to share photos of him in costume because he’s super cute in knickers.
#achristmascarol #bonstelletheatre #parkermurphy #theaterkid #musicalkid #waynestateuniversity #waynestatetheatreanddance
Instagram post 2189673624293023227_22599241 Happy One to the sweetest little niece. I’m so glad you travel the world between naps but wish that it was maybe all right next door. 
We love you Willa!
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#willaweloveyou #travelingbaby #childhoodunplugged #wildandfreechildren #willaamerica #snowbaby
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Instagram post 2186580735371368411_22599241 Not sure who loves who more. .
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Instagram post 2181667969409754197_22599241 Is it close enough to the holidays to get the Christmas stuff rolling because this kid is ready. #parkerpretends .
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#christmaskid #thegrinch #childhoodunplugged #wildandfreechildren #creativekids #costumemakeup #cosplaykid #cosplaykids
Instagram post 2181025657881233080_22599241 With my kids being so close in age he used to always follow behind whatever his siblings did. If he had been our oldest he probably never would have ended up in theater but I’m so glad he did. Love watching this boy find his own groove.
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  • How to Easily Enchant Any Room with These Magical DIY Fairy Lanterns {Easy Tutorial} My daughter's birthday is coming up, and I was trying to think of something really cool that I could make her as a special gift. She's really into fantasy stuff like fairies and unicorns, so I was looking for a fantasy-themed art project that would look cool in her room. I ended up finding the perfect project for creating stunning DIY fairy lanterns. I can't wait to make one of these for her. #diy #cute #decor
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