Four Plus an Angel by Jessica Watson

Life after loss with autism, preemies and a rainbow baby

The most difficult parts of autism

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This is a post is part of a paid partnership with Aeroflow Urology as part of the Chronic Illness Bloggers Network. All thoughts and opinions are my own. Years ago I would have written this solely from a mom's perspective. I would have listed the difficult parts of autism for me. But my daughter is 23 now. We have both had our struggles but now I see her out in the world, more independent than ever. I can clearly see the difficulties that are hers much more so than they are mine. Transportation Lack of transportation is first on my list of things that make our life tough. Ashlyn is an adult, she should be able to go where she likes when she likes. Can you imagine your every need Continue Reading

If you want a rainbow sometimes you need to buy one

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This post contains affiliate links.  I've been doing almost all of my shopping on Amazon lately. I feel like I've got the hang of what brands are decent, where to find good prices and how to make sure my packages won't first be touring the world for 80 days. The part of my mind that plans to blog weekly keeps creating blog posts about my favorite Amazon finds but I never actually put them together. But then my friend Anna shared this sweet umbrella in one of her awesome Amazon roundups and sent me down a rabbit hole, or over a rainbow, shopping for the cutest rainbow products. There are so many! I want everything I found but since I can't have them all maybe you can just Continue Reading

The sky can be anywhere

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His last show ended a few hours ago and Parker is already hanging clouds in our basement. While most of the cast waited for pizza and stalked the dessert table, Parker circled the stage as set pieces were taken down. A few minutes later he came out for food, a gigantic cloud tucked under one arm. This is the first show one of my kids has been in where I haven't helped at most of the rehearsals. I guess that's what happens when they get older and decide on different activities and cloning yourself isn't casually done for evening activities. I was excited to see a show that was a complete surprise. Opening night would be my first time hearing all the songs and seeing the show come Continue Reading

My favorite books of the year

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This post should be called "My favorite books since the last time I had time to write about books" but that doesn't have the same ring to it. I've met my Goodreads goal for the year so it's time to slow down and choose the ones I love. I haven't done a "favorite books" post since early 2017 so I've got a lot of ground to cover. All kinds of amazing characters are swirling through my head after scrolling through the books I've read. I know I'm biased because I am a writer, but isn't it crazy that someone can sit down and create characters so vivid we miss them a year after we've shelved them? If you've stuck with my nerdy book talk for the last two paragraphs I promise it's time to get to Continue Reading

More than 35 costumes you can make at home

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If you've followed me on any type of social media for more than five minutes you know that my Parker creates costumes almost daily. As he's gotten older his costumes have gotten better and better. He's even taking custom orders now! Almost everything he wears is made from things he's collected from around our house. Sometimes he hits the jackpot and adds in some junk/treasures from friends and family to incorporate into his plans. I thought I'd share a few in case you need last minute costume ideas this Halloween. If you like what you see you can find Parker's creations on Facebook, YouTube and on Instagram under the hashtag Continue Reading

Grieving Season

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The weather is changing and conversations head in that direction as they always do. From porch to sidewalk, neighbors shout about the need for jackets or lack of. Somewhere, in line for coffee, two old friends discuss the 20 degree temperature difference from last week. And I promise, right this moment, a group of parents is discussing little feet stretching to almost adult-size since the last time they pulled out this season's shoes. But for me, this change of season means something different. As the temperature changes and the conversations go with it, my grieving season begins. If I have nothing to add to talk of weather and outgrown clothing it's because I can't think of anything Continue Reading

All the things she loves

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This post is sponsored by Custom Ink. I was compensated by Custom Ink to write this post. All opinions, children and video background noise are my own. Almost every autism parent will tell you their child has a "thing." A television show, a character, a favorite item-- something they've been hooked on for years. I know kids who love elevators or garbage trucks, kids who've been carrying the same stuffed animal for ten years and kids who could tell you the inner workings of their city's sewage system. Ashlyn has had a couple different "things" over the years. She used to read me her yearbook, over and over again. She's also an expert at the school bussing system. But every time she has Continue Reading

Our favorite math program and a giveaway

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Homeschooling is just like everything else in parenting. No matter how long you're doing it you're still wondering if you're doing it right. Among the many things I question about this whole homeschooling thing are our curriculum choices. Are my kids at the right level? Is the curricula of choice teaching them the way they need to learn? Are they learning enough? Will they blame me for the rest of their lives if they can't solve for x? Due to my indecisive nature, we've switch many of our curriculum choices over the years but there is one-- thank goodness there is one-- that I have not wavered from since we found it.   Our math curriculum of choice The year my kids were old Continue Reading

Podcasts you won’t be able to turn off

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I discovered podcasts a few years ago when I was in the middle of deep cleaning our house for a move. I kept hearing people talk about a podcast called Serial. I figured I would try to figure out how to listen to these things and if I actually liked them while I had hours of mindless cleaning ahead of me. Ten episodes of Serial later I was hooked, the house was clean and I wasn't really sure how either thing had happened. Listening to podcasts is now my favorite way to get any mindless task done. It's much less painful to match 8,000 different white socks if you're listening to a well produced story. A few years into my cleaning-while-podcasting habit and I've narrowed down my favorites. Continue Reading

How an autism diagnosis changed our lives

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World Autism Day

Ashlyn was two when I received the results of her first developmental screening. Her fine motor skills where that of a 6 month old. Her gross motor skills registered at barely 9 months of age and her verbal skills tested at under one year. I knew shortly after her birth that something wasn't right but I didn't realize how wrong it was until the results were staring at me on paper. I was a young, single mother and I immediately began doing the math and calculating her future success. At age six would she be stacking blocks instead of learning to tie her shoes? At eight would her speech struggle to be that of a four year old? Would she ever be able to write her name or ride a bike or tell me Continue Reading