Life after loss with autism, preemies and a rainbow baby
The past few weeks have been full of forms… school registration, medical history, emergency cards… all the fill in the blanks that come with the beginning of a new school year. By form #4,385, it dawns on me how often I check the “other” box. How many times we don’t fit into the choices listed […]
Early for pick-up, I land in the first space in the lot in view of the morning preschool room. Handing a paper to blonde hair and pigtails, he moves over one seat for more markers, runs to settle in for story time and tilts his head that way that makes his hair cover one eyebrow. […]
Today was my first day volunteering at preschool. For some reason I had visions of sitting back and watching the day unfold, my little man displaying his dynamic social skills while trying to resist darting off to the playground. But no. I had a job. A real job. I was in charge of a project. […]
I can’t believe we are more than half way through our first year of homeschooling. I think my favorite part has been letting go of the “rules” a little bit and thinking outside the box to help McKenna learn. Because of her medical history her small motor skills are delayed and she fatigues quickly when […]
As we wind down from our first full day of preschool, I am thrilled to say that a piece I wrote on life as a single mom is syndicated over at Blogher Moms. If you have a minute, head over to read The Loneliest Mother I’ve Seen and leave a comment so I know you […]
Just the two of us awake, we sit on the front porch. I point out flowers on branches and explain the luck of a four leaf clover. You listen intently while trying to resist the dirt calling your name and a bug coming towards your toes. Will bugs bite me, Mommy? Nope Buddy, those bugs […]
Parker and McKenna are beginning preschool in the fall. The thought of this big step makes me nervous and excited and committed to toughening up so I don’t scoop them up and take them home the minute they whimper at the preschool doors. I asked my wonderful friend Katie, a child, adolescent and family psychotherapist […]
Preschool enrollment forms glare at me as I type. Stacked at the computer they have been sitting partially completed, for a month. The first several lines are penned in my neatest, I-will-be-the-best-classroom-volunteer-ever handwriting. The rest is blank. My perfect penmanship ends right after the line that asks for a list of siblings and their ages. […]
I read a touching post about letting your kids go as they grow up. Beginning to leave a comment, I tap away at the keys, “my two will start ” and my fingers slow to a stop. My mind has caught up. The buzz of the day has quieted and I sit with reality. Milestones […]
As Easter approaches I’m wracking my brain for ways to fit an egg or two into our daily learning. One of my favorites from this week was using eggs to work on the concept of patterns. For the three year old, just coloring the egg in a two color pattern was enough. For the five […]
